By Jonathan W.
12/23/2025
- So, you had a plan….
You believed your spot in the company made a difference, and you worked hard to prove it. Then, out of nowhere, you’re laid off. You may have saw it coming, or not. That shock hits hard. Now, you’re asking yourself, What’s next? Is this a setback or a fresh start?
As with most things, attitude is everything in moments like these. Our mettle is tested and we truly get to see what our level of composure is like. It may sound cliché, but how you handle your emotions right now can make all the difference. Take the time to process feelings of anger, disappointment, or fear, just don’t let bitterness follow you into your next chapter. Shrugging is off is something no one can ask of you, but you have to find a way to not carry those burdens with you. A clear mind can open doors you might not see when overwhelmed by worry or frustration.
- Focus on Skills and Flexibility
Whether you want to or not, you will learn to adapt. In a world that’s changing rapidly, keeping your skills sharp is essential. Whether it’s brushing up on Microsoft Office, diving into data management, or learning about new AI software, these skills can boost your attractiveness to employers. It’s all about your skills and your mindset.
- Know Your Strengths and Set Realistic Goals
Be honest with yourself, are you looking for a short-term fix, or are you ready for a long-term career/industry change? Also, be prepared that you might not jump back into your old role at the same pay or benefits, especially if your previous company scaled back. Adjust your expectations accordingly, but always look for the bright side of things.
- What Truly Matters to You?
Think about what’s most important right now. Is it job security, flexibility, a shorter commute, or switching to a new industry? Make sure your next move aligns with your personal and professional goals. Sure, you may have to find something temporary to make ends meet for a short time, but put all of your energy into the big thing. Don’t spend time looking into the past too much. Sometimes, a job that offers a better work-life balance or growth opportunities even if it pays less, can be a smarter choice than sticking with something that no longer fits. Or, this may be the time to go after that big ticket position you’ve not had the risk tolerance for until now.
- See This as an Opportunity
Bob and Doris from Executive Advantage, LLC, often say that many people don’t truly find themselves until their 40s or 50s. Maybe this is your moment to reposition yourself. Do what you love. Rediscover what makes you feel alive, whether that’s exploring a new industry, trying a different role, or pursuing a passion project.
If you’re unsure what that is, lean on your trusted friends and mentors. Sometimes, an outside perspective can help you see your own potential more clearly.
- Look at the Big Picture
Layoffs are tough, no doubt. But they can also serve as a reset button. With the right attitude, honest reflection, and a willingness to adapt, you can position yourself for success and even thrive after this setback.
We’d love to hear if you have any more tips or insights to add!